Can Ex Change Custodial Agreement Based On My New Fiance' (Parolee)??
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Ex-wife is dating a felon self. My ex-wife and I we'll call her M divorced in August of last year after I found out she was having an affair with an old ex-boyfriend. She came up pregnant at the time of the affair with our 4th child. I don't want to go too far into it because it's a really long story filled with bullshit but basically I stayed with her through the pregnancy to help out because I just thought it seemed like the right thing to do.
We tried counseling but she was still talking to the ex and continued to lie about the relationship. Looking back I'm still not sure what all exactly happened but I've processed it vonvicted moved on. Shortly after our last daughter was born we now have 4 all datkng and her's I couldn't take it anymore and left. It was a long road but we got divorced and she got custody of the kids and I got standard visitation. Despite the issues in our relationship I felt she was a good mother and I'm a firm believer that a daughter needs her mother.
Now here is where everything starts to go south. I started dating one of my friends a couple of felno after the divorce. It basically took a year for me to get divorced so My ex is dating a convicted felon felt I was pretty well over the relationship. My ex-wife m became very dedicated to the church and started spending a ton of time id. Her and I still talked quite a bit because it's almost impossible not to when you have 4 children together. This past December Cknvicted my ex is dating a convicted felon to me and told me that she was interested in somebody at church, we'll call him V.
M said that she didn't know much about him but was getting to know him through the church. The church she goes to runs a rehab program so I asked her if he was part of the program. M told me that he was but at one time but had graduated a while back. I told her to be careful and that I really didn't want the kids to be around him. She explained to me us they were just going to slowly get to know each other though church and the girls were only going to be around him during church activities.
I wasn't really happy about this but there wasn't much I could do and I was satisfied that he wasn't going to be around the girls. At this point I did not question her judgment or think that she would lie feoon I felt she was trying really hard to change. We go through January and I would occasionally ask about it and she would maintain that they were just getting to know each other and they still were not hanging out outside of church. Yet again, I am concerned but nothing I can really do.
I did ask some additional questions and found wx he was a felon but everything had happened a while back and he was a changed saved by God man. Well everything fell apart at the beginning of February. Some of the things she was telling me just didn't seem to line up. Also the kids still had mentioned nothing about this guy. So I started digging us came back with a few more unsettling details about his criminal record. So she brought the girls over and I told her that I wanted to talk to her about S.
We fonvicted outside and away from the house so the kids couldn't here and started voicing my concerns. M just smiled at me and seemed to almost glaze over as I told what little I knew about his past. I asked her cknvicted she knew and she replied that she knew he had stole stuff mh done a little meth. WTF a "little" meth?! Then she said if you want to meet him he's sitting in the van.
I looked over and there he was, just sitting there. I was able to maintain by dtaing but I walked over and opened the door introduced myself, shook his my ex is dating a convicted felon, and informed him that he was not allowed on my property, and wan not to step foot on my property again. He said, "Not a problem. I kept my composure but explained that I didn't want him around my kids period.
M said that she would try to minimize the kid convited around V datin that they were still taking things slow. I found texts on my daughters phone 14 years old where M and V had been biblically calling me the Christian equivalent of a dating redwood city telling her that I didn't understand redemption and that I was just persecuting V because I didn't understand. The rest of the stuff either came from his public criminal record or was stuff that I had been told by M or other people throughout various conversations:.
V has been out of jail less than six months on charges related to meth. V has a sustained criminal record over the last 15 years for theft, lying to the cops, more theft and meth. V is still on probation, doesn't have convidted job my ex is dating a convicted felon a vehicle. V has been coming over to the house and hanging out with Dting and the kids, having supper, etc. He has told my kids that he is in love with M and that God has told him to marry her.
V is just waiting for God to tell M so they can move forward. M has told me that she has realized in mt last couple of weeks that she is deeply in love with him. Last week M and I talked and she told me that she had talked to her pastor and out of respect for me and the girls she didn't feel they were ready for somebody convicred she was going to limit V being around the kids.
She said she was also myy to limit her time with him as well because she didn't want to have sex before marriage but something had happened when he stayed over the previous week. Less than 24 hours after we had that conversation he was over at the house with the kids. Then yesterday they spent cconvicted day together and ran all over town and I'm not certain but I believe he spent the night.
I have tried every possible way to explain to her that she is taking a big risk, not only with herself but with the kids.